Leaving the City — What Happens When You Actually Make the Move

From Amsterdam apartment to countryside — the before, the during, and the after.

Everyone who lives in a city has thought about it. Fewer people do it. Willem did — left Amsterdam after years of urban life and moved to the countryside with his family. These posts document the thinking before, the experience during, and what changed after. For anyone still on the fence: this is what it's actually like.

The Decision

Moving to the countryside is the centrepiece — written not as a celebration or a complaint, but as an honest account of what the transition actually involves. What you gain: space, silence, nature, a different pace. What you lose: walkability, spontaneity, the energy of a city that never sleeps. And what surprises you: the things you thought you'd miss but don't, and the things you didn't expect to miss but do.

Moving to the countryside

Moving to the countryside

Leaving the big city for a small village

This month marked "the big move": relocating my family from Amsterdam to Noord-Limburg's countryside. Motivated by my wife's longing for her roots and our desire for space, the timing felt right. As our oldest child neared four years and primary school, we considered embracing the countryside lifestyle. Would trading Amsterdam's bustle for a new pace be rewarding? Read on!

The Preparation

The move didn't happen overnight. Years of posts trace the gradual loosening of city ties. The day I sold my car seems like the opposite of countryside preparation — but it was actually the beginning of rethinking how you move through life. The commuting by bike posts document the Amsterdam years: what the city gave, and what it took.

The day I sold my car

The day I sold my car

Looking back at my years with Smart Roadster

This week I sold my car, I now no longer own one. For me, this is something of a change as over the years I owned various sports cars that were like a hobby to me. My discovery of cycling and the birth of my son changed this. But if you're looking for a reason to buy a sports car, read along!

Commuting by bike

Commuting by bike

One week (240KM) on the VanMoof Electrified S

For a few years now, I commute to work using a bicycle. I have lost more than 15KG since I stopped using my scooter. This week I tested a VanMoof Electrified S, an electric bike with an industrial, minimal design. Is it any good? How does it compare to a normal bike? Will an electric bike make you lazy? Read along to find out!

The New Life

After the move, the blog itself changed. More nature posts, more writing about space and quiet, a different relationship with technology. The cargo bike that carried kids through Amsterdam streets now navigates country roads. The server that ran from an Amsterdam apartment now runs from a rural connection. Everything adapted.

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For Those Still Thinking About It

If you're reading this from a city apartment, wondering whether you could actually do it — these posts are for you. Willem isn't evangelical about countryside living. He's honest about the trade-offs. But the writing makes one thing clear: the fear of the move is always bigger than the move itself.

Change Keeps Coming

Change Keeps Coming

The Pathless Path by Paul Millerd

Suggested by a friend in thinking, I just finished reading the book 'The Pathless Path' by Paul Millerd. It sits right next to Brad Stulberg's 'Master of Change' on my mental shelf for the same reason: both quietly push back against the urge to cling to what's safe, familiar, or "supposed to be.". What if you step off the scripted ladder and into uncertainty, what do you need to thrive?

Hello Video

Hello Video

Greeting you with a smile!

Just look around the modern web today, thanks to AI generated texts and images everything feels polished, perfect... and a little cold. I wanted to break the proverbial ice with a simple smile. So I replaced my hero photo with something alive: tiny, random videos of me waving, nodding, or just being there. There is more than meets the eye to make it work, let me explain in this post.

The Future of AI is Human

The Future of AI is Human

On Fairies and Gin-Tonic with Blueberries

AI got me thinking lately, why would one still want to work? Perhaps today's imperfect AI is not ready yet, but imagine everybody has access to a near perfect intelligence, capable of solving hard problems and answering even your wildest questions. Combine that with robotics and we'll be left wondering what to do next. Some fairies and Gin-Tonic pointed me to a possible answer.

Willemstagram

Willemstagram

3D flip-flap photo display showing stories

Last week I sat with a customer looking at the new willem.com homepage where I use a narrative to tell about the things I do. This customer is one of the best visionary create thinkers, yet my text didn't seem to speak to him. Thinking about this, I remembered an important psychology lesson from the University: I needed something different, something non-linear, this post is about delivering a visual punch!

Towards Digital Sovereignty

Towards Digital Sovereignty

Turning my experience into your advantage

Over the years I have experimented with different digital tools, platforms and apps to get my work done. From easy-to-use but locked down commercial systems to free/libre solutions that are powerful but more challenging to setup. I learned a lot along the way. Now I offer that experience to others, read along to learn how you can benefit from this.

Master of Change

Master of Change

Thriving amidst uncertainty using Rugged Flexibility

Change is one of life's few constants. Yet, even with its inevitability, facing it head-on can feel daunting and disorienting. In the book "Master of Change", Brad Stulberg offers a thought-provoking guide to not just survive but thrive in an ever changing world.

The Problem With Bitcoin

The Problem With Bitcoin

Everybody Wins

A few days ago the value of a single Bitcoin briefly surpassed $100K, a milestone that seemed unimaginable just some years ago. I wonder how durable the ever growing love for Bitcoin is. Let's have a closer look at the mechanisms underpinning the world's most famous cryptocurrency.

Write your own words

Write your own words

Against AI for writing

Two years ago ChatGPT launched, it popularised AI as tool to create things. Large language models generate text based on prompts, outputting words that are hard to distinguish from being written by a person. The short term benefits are clear, but I suspect many people underestimate the long term costs.

Go Viral on X

Go Viral on X

32K views in two days

Earlier this week one of my posts on the social network X went viral and attracted 32K views in two days. With no major presence on Elon Musk's platform, and no paid advertising, gaining that kind of attention is something special. Let me explain how this happened.

Marathon

Marathon

Running my first full marathon

Last Sunday I completed my first full marathon, covering a distance of 42KM in and around Amsterdam. An idea that started in a bar with some beers and concluded with a finish in the Olympic Stadium. What a journey, what an experience, well worthy of a blog post.

I see dead people

I see dead people

Augmenting old photos in virtual reality

Imagine seeing your dead family members - not just on a picture, but lifelike and in three dimensions! You can almost touch them. It hits you differently, I can assure you. I'm still in awe: I just saw my dead grandfather, lifelike and for the first time ever in three dimensions! This may be Apple Vision Pro's killer feature, if you allow me the pun, please hear me out.

No, I Won't Build That!

No, I Won't Build That!

Better Thinking, Better Work

If you're an accomplished developer (as in: you've actually created things in the past), you may recognise this scenario: people reaching out to you, asking you to build something specific. "Can you build X for me?" A fellow technician once urged me to refuse more often: be proud of the things you don't do! Let me explain in this post.

Hello, stranger

Hello, stranger

Talking to random people

While enjoying my fresh wok lunch in Amsterdam, I noticed something odd: other folks coming in for something to eat ignored the person standing at the counter, preferring to order through a digital kiosk. The crazy thing about this? They are just centimetres apart!

MUSE in Carré

MUSE in Carré

Rock meets elegance

Last Sunday I experienced a breathtaking fusion of legendary rock band MUSE and Amsterdam's iconic Royal Theatre Carré. The band's electrifying sound in the theatre's sophisticated atmosphere proved to be a recipe for an unforgettable night.

Computer says no

Computer says no

How today is ruled by Artificial Intelligence

This morning I enjoyed my bike ride on a nearly empty bicycle lane, picture perfect rays of sunlight illuminated the dew above the fields around me. Where were all the other cyclists? I suspect it has something to do with popular weather apps. It strikes me how great the control of computers on people's lives already is.

CAPTCHA Alternative

CAPTCHA Alternative

Protect your forms in a user friendly way

Chances are that you've encountered a CAPTCHA in the wild: they protect web forms by asking you to type over weirdly rendered characters or by asking you to select photos containing a particular thing. Why are they used and is there a user friendly alternative?

Snake '97 High Scores

Snake '97 High Scores

Game inspired art by Zena Van den Block

Last week I received a very kind invitation from a Belgian artist, to attend her art exhibition in Antwerp. The work on display involved the Snake '97 game that I have created. Uttering to find the right words and thrilled with excitement, I happily accepted the invitation!

Inspiration from a child

Inspiration from a child

Experience the world like a kid

Together with my kids I love to explore the world that we think we know as adults. A kid's perspective inspires and surprises! No need to travel half the world for an adventure: Fly planes, catch bad guys, solve problems, build and break stuff - (re)discover the adventure right at your doorstep!

Wearing two watches

Wearing two watches

Both a mechanical and a smartwatch

For the past weeks I have been wearing two watches, and boy this is a thing! I love my mechanical watch, but I needed the modern connectivity of a smartwatch. I couldn't choose between them, so I decided to wear both. It's not as bad as you think, let me share some thoughts on my experience.

The value of notifications

The value of notifications

How to setup your smartphone to save time

It's easy to dismiss your phone's notifications as something that disturbs you, something annoying. But if you take the time to set them up correctly, notifications can actually save you time in the long run. Gain more focus by taking control over your online connection to the world. Read along for some tips!

Influencing purchase behaviour

Influencing purchase behaviour

Applying behavioural sciences principles to the purchase decision process

This week I stumbled upon a brilliant report on how people make their purchase decision. For my work on the online food order app I am continuously looking into scientific sources to improve performance, conversion and online revenue. This report by Google discusses six biases influencing decision making. It's worth reading their full report, let me explain why.

The day I sold my car

The day I sold my car

Looking back at my years with Smart Roadster

This week I sold my car, I now no longer own one. For me, this is something of a change as over the years I owned various sports cars that were like a hobby to me. My discovery of cycling and the birth of my son changed this. But if you're looking for a reason to buy a sports car, read along!

Realtime human pose recognition through computer vision

Realtime human pose recognition through computer vision

Using TensorFlow and PoseNet on a video feed

For an exciting new project I have been experimenting with computer vision using TensorFlow. I wanted to achieve realtime human pose detection to drive interactive video projections and games. Time to dive into the world of machine learning, tensors and computer vision!

Visiting an international hackers conference

Visiting an international hackers conference

OWASP Global AppSec Amsterdam

This month I was lucky enough to attend Global AppSec Amsterdam, an international conference for hackers and security specialists. There were presentations from former intelligence agents, bounty hunters, academics and software vendors. I learned about some of the newest hacking techniques, met with interesting people and played some cool retro games. Read along for more.

Do amazing things with a focused mind

Do amazing things with a focused mind

Taking an ice bath and swimming in the Amstel river

Just when the temperature was a low 2° Celsius, I jumped in the Amstel river! While it was nearly freezing outside I went for a swim, just moments after I've taken an ice bath! This post is about the incredible birthday present I got, a workshop involving the Wim Hof Method.

Rescuing files from a broken harddisk

Rescuing files from a broken harddisk

Make backups to be safe rather than sorry!

Yesterday a young woman brought me her laptop, it didn't start anymore and it only showed an error message. It turned out to be a broken harddisk. It startled her when I told her that all data on the disk was lost. She told me it contained precious photos of her pregnancy and young child. What could I do?

Helping people with free software

Helping people with free software

Installing Debian GNU/Linux on an old laptop

This week a man brought his laptop to the community centre where I help people with computer problems as volunteer. The old laptop wouldn't start anymore and had to be reinstalled. Instead of Windows, I installed a free operating system. I think it is important to tell you how and why I did it.

Enjoy a festival without alcohol

Enjoy a festival without alcohol

Alcohol-free beer at Rock Werchter

Last weekend me and my brother went to Rock Werchter, a multi-day, music festival in Belgium. Over 140 thousand visitors enjoy world famous artists like Pearl Jam, Nick Cave, Artic Monkeys, Noel Gallagher, The Killers and the Queens of the Stone Age. This year I didn't drink alcohol during the festival, leading to some interesting observations...

Outside the comfort zone: amateur acting

Outside the comfort zone: amateur acting

Wearing an heart rate monitor during my debut performance

This month I made my debut as amateur actor. I am no Hollywood star, nor do I envy to become one. But I do like crazy experiments and operating outside of my comfort zone often leads to new and refreshing insights. I took part in an amateur drama play and - in the name of science and fun - strapped myself with sensors to measure what happened to my body.

Something the smartwatch will never have: patina

Something the smartwatch will never have: patina

Wear and tear by the hands of time

A good friend of mine had an issue with his Apple Watch, the digital crown lost a rubber ring causing the watch to lose its water resistance. Apple made no problem of it and offered to replace his "device". While it solved his problem, it felt painful to my watch lover's ears. It made me realise the one thing a smartwatch will never have: patina.

Lessons from a takeaway plastic bag

Lessons from a takeaway plastic bag

My ever increasing antipathy to planned obsolescence

About five months ago I got some take away food from our local Asian restaurant. They packaged the food and gave me a plastic bag to carry it home. On my way home I was thinking about the bag. Although it has some nice styling printed on it, it's designed for single use only. What a waste... making me wonder: how long would it last if you would use it on a daily basis?

Commuting by bike

Commuting by bike

One week (240KM) on the VanMoof Electrified S

For a few years now, I commute to work using a bicycle. I have lost more than 15KG since I stopped using my scooter. This week I tested a VanMoof Electrified S, an electric bike with an industrial, minimal design. Is it any good? How does it compare to a normal bike? Will an electric bike make you lazy? Read along to find out!

Climbing Mount Etna

Climbing Mount Etna

Visiting an active volcano on Sicily, Italy

Last week me and my wife went to Sicily for a little summer holiday. It is the largest island in the Mediterranean Sea. It is an autonomous region of Italy, along with surrounding minor islands. It's home to Europe's largest active volcano: Mount Etna. We had a chance to visit this lava spurring monstrosity and it was quite the experience.

Fietselfstedentocht 2017

Fietselfstedentocht 2017

Cycling the 235KM bicycle tour through Friesland

This month I cycled the Fietselfstedentocht, a 235KM tour through Friesland. This tour brings you through various Frisian cities throughout one of the most Northern provinces of the Netherlands. The tour was first organised in 1912 and has grown to become legendary due to its history, challenge and popularity; well worthy of a blog post!

Being a volunteer in Amsterdam-Zuidoost

Being a volunteer in Amsterdam-Zuidoost

Computer support in the local community center

After realising how lucky I am as an healthy, well educated, young man with a solid income, I wanted to do something for other people as volunteer. It just so happens to be that two years ago I received a flyer in my mailbox from the local community center: they were looking for someone with some knowledge of computers. A very interesting journey was about to begin!

Cash is king, or is it?

Cash is king, or is it?

The wallet- and cash-less experiment

Very often I see men carry a wallet filled with plastic: multiple debit and credit cards plus a bunch of loyalty programs and membership cards. Then, some even top it off with stinky paper money and sticky metal coins! It made me wonder if I can free up one pocket by ditching the wallet?